For my first REAL “superhero alert“–which will be small meditations on how to become a superhero, and alerts for good deeds–I wanted to share this little Buttersafe comic. (Go ahead, check them out!)
Why did I think this was appropriate for a superhero alert? Because I think popsicles can stop global warming.
Sí, one shouldn’t make light of important issues, bla bla bla, but I do think sometimes its the little things that make the biggest change. Just sharing something small like ice cream can really incentivize people to do what’s right, and change, and be kind. Seguro, it takes more than that. Giving hotdogs to homeless people every Tuesday doesn’t have a very high success rate for saving them from addiction, in my area in Ponce, por lo menos. But sometimes that little step can be a gateway to a bigger step, if you follow up. Sometimes you get the chance to again and again offer the medical addiction services. Sometimes you get the chance to help someone in a crisis. Sometimes you’re one of the last people to hug them before they die forgotten in the shadow of a gas station. I’ve been there, and it sucks, because it’s never ENOUGH to do the little thing. A superhero is someone who goes beyond the little thing.
But you gotta start somewhere.
I think good guys need to think like bad guys more. What’s your “gateway drug” to lure people over to health and happiness? What do you offer, in small, free doses, to light the spark that leads to a flame of change? Not everyone who takes marijuana will try a harder drug, and not everyone who receives small doses of love and kindness from someone on the other side of the political aisle will drop their hate. But little doses of kindness sure are a heck of a lot more effective than the SJW tactic of shame and guilt, and the conservative tactic of anger, and the EPA’s tactic of punishing people for un-environmental behavior, rather than offering financial incentives and tax breaks to reward good. On the superficial level, these fear-tactics seem effective, but under the surface they’re creating pockets of hate just waiting to burst over in rebellion and backlash, and that’s what we’re seeing right now with this last election’s turmoil. It’s like black magic: the more you control people by fear, whether you’re conservative or liberal, the more you’re setting yourself up to pay a HUGE price later. Black magic always comes with a price.
To conclude, my Superhero Peeps: it may be EASIER to be feared than loved, but actually in the long term it isn’t BETTER, Machiavelli, for your descendants–because fear only lasts so long before it becomes anger (thank-you Yoda). I used to work as an intern therapist for autistic kids, doing ABA, y uno de los principios científicos básicos del análisis del comportamiento aplicado es que usamos el refuerzo positivo más de, y en lugar de, reforzamiento negativo. Es una de las razones ABA es el único científicamente, clínicamente estudiado, aleatorizado juicio método de terapia probada para ayudar a los niños en el espectro ASD. Consistentes obras de refuerzo positivo.
Así que dime. ¿Cómo pueden sus paletas de cambiar el mundo de hoy?