It’s Jen, your scifi and superhero sis, here to talk becoming a real-life superhero. You know how in movies there’s always some kind of uniform montage, where the hero creates their costume or whatever?
I’m not sure what the obsession is with costumes. I get the symbols are important. I get that Batman needs to be scary, and Spiderman and Superman need America colors to give people confidence in them, and that’s all well and good. And obviously costumes MATTER to people, since they had a hissy fit when Wonder Woman changed her underwear.
But in real life, you gotta ask yourself: what purpose does what I wear serve to accomplish my mission?
No one wants to talk about child abuse. But superheroes run towards the terror everyone else is fleeing.
それは再び私です, ただ–ご存知のとおり, the scifi author and physician hunts down ways to become a real-life superhero. You never know what’s going on in someone’s life. I vividly remember one case, in particular, of a young male Soldier who couldn’t function AT ALL during the day because he spent his nights in terror.
ねえ! It’s Jen, the scifi author who sends you IRL superhero lessons sometimes.
If you’re really interested in becoming a hero–and not just an internet activist–you’ve got to do something that’s DIFFERENT. Anyone can retweet a thing. But Batman puts on a utility belt and starts running around the city with a weird hat on. I’m joking, but I’m also totally serious!
You might have seen this already, but when I was in Paraguay this year, I met a doctor who gets paid in noodles. (If you haven’t seen that yet, it’s seven minutes and super-uplifting). I’d love for you to see it, comment, and brainstorm with me–what’s a problem you see that maybe needs a NEW idea? What’s the BIG DIFFERENCE that could change your strategy right now? You’ve got to exist with some realism, 右–Batman can’t fund his crazy without Bruce Wayne’s real life job–but real change starts with DIFFERENT.
Jen here, the scifi author who sends you superheroes sometimes. And who also really, really wants to become a superhero in real life when I grow up and get better from all these illnesses.
I’ve got a weird flex for you today. 詐欺師が私に仕事を提供した, And I decided to play along so you and I can better understand how to help people escape these guys. I dropped some chill music underneath, so you can put this on while you’re doing something else–ので、 はい…check out my new scam job.
通常の生活を超えて、独自のスーパーヒーローのアイデンティティを構築する準備ができている場合, 5 日間のヒーロー インスピレーション コースを受講する. それは無料です, そしてそれは子供たちの指導についての話から始まります. そして、必要な変化のために脳を刺激しない場合, you can email me through the course and I will help you choose YOUR journey based on YOUR passions and calling. Most people just want to be “良い”; they can’t imagine beyond that. I am looking for those rare ones ready to turn their PAIN into POWER. Apply here.
1. Please don’t use this as an excuse or reason to attack trans people.
その代わり, please HEAR HIM as you would hear any other victim when he talks about his healthcare story–彼が脆弱な状態にあったときに、メンタルヘルスの提供者によってどのように操作されたかについて. 私は、これらのことが起こる可能性があることを絶対に断言できます: 他の数人の男性から性的暴行を受けたことがある若いストレートの男性がいました。, 私が彼の記録を見直していたとき、心理学者からのすべてのメモは、その男が本当に異性愛者で、本当に暴行を受けたかどうかを疑問視するメモでした.. “多分彼はそれを望んでいて、同性愛者であることを恥ずかしく思っています, だから彼はそれをレイプと呼んでいる,” 本質的にメモが読んでいたものでした. 男性の犠牲者を脇に置いて信じようとしない、まったく愚かな不本意, 操作は起こります. There’s a reason I’ve fired multiple therapists myself. クリスの話は知らない, しかし、私は被害者を信じています.
— 自殺ヘルプライン米国の電話番号: 1-800-273-8255 — 危機のテキスト行: ホームにテキストメッセージ 741741 私たちで; テキスト 686868 カナダで — 国際的な自殺者数 — 治療法を見つける. 優れたセラピストがいない場合, 私は提携しています より良いヘルプ でオンライン治療に使用できます 10 パーセント割引, これは、このサイトのスーパーヒーロープロジェクトのサポートにも役立ちます. If you can’t afford Better Help, Open Path Collective helps people with low incomes connect with therapy, and your local health department can help you if you’re completely uninsured. — ヴィクトール・フランクルのロゴセラピー本 うつ病の意味を見つけるのに役立ちました — マシューマッケイによるこのDBTワークブック 強い自殺念慮を乗り切るのを助けてくれた
And when you’re done with that–if you’re tired of reading or hearing about heroism, and you want to start your own story beyond what’s currently real, hit me up here.
今日のあなたのスーパーヒーローアラートのために, ペニーアーケードのチャイルドプレイチャリティーについてお話ししたいと思います. 彼らは虐待シェルターや病院で苦しんでいる子供たちにおもちゃやビデオゲームを寄付しています–just to bring a little bit of light to dark young lives.
そしてもちろん, if you’d like to get started on your own hero journey–ご存知のとおり, go beyond reading about superheroes, fictional or otherwise, and break into your own story–その後、 get in with me here.