Este chico de unos 20 años se convirtió en IRL “barrio amigable” héroe. #mejor que el hombre araña #reallifesuperhero

ya conoces a spiderman, derecho?

no quiero decir, como, ¿Ustedes dos salen personalmente?, porque no estoy seguro de que eso sea posible, pero me refiero a como–sabes de quien estoy hablando.

Todo el asunto del Spidey original.–antes de que Marvel se volviera loco a lo grande–es que él es el héroe de tu barrio, el tipo que conoce a la gente de su cuadra, conoce sus problemas, y trata de protegerlos de lo que podría lastimarlos.

Hay un tipo aquí afuera compitiendo con Spiderman por su dinero..

El barrio de este chico está de moda., y bochornoso. Los niños corren descalzos por caminos de tierra; Los tejados oxidados se agachan junto a parches de huertas., y como en áreas que quizás conozcas del sur de Estados Unidos más pobre. El barrio de mi chico estuvo gobernado por matones durante varias décadas.–asesino, Matones que te cortan con un machete, Matones tan malos que nuestro chico vivió en un campo de refugiados en otro país durante años..

en ese campamento, tomó un libro que le hizo cambiar las reglas que seguía–el mantra por el que vivió. No cambió a su Dios ni nada. Acabo de aprender nuevas reglas.

No sé exactamente cuándo entraron en vigor las reglas., o si esto siempre estuvo en la naturaleza de este tipo; de alguna manera, Una vez que regresó a su vecindario, comenzó a conocer a las personas que no tenían comida.. “Las viudas y los huérfanos.” Empezó a tocar puertas metafóricas., invitando a la gente a venir a buscar lo que tenía, y por supuesto, Estas cosas tienen una forma de bola de nieve.: sabes si alguna vez has comenzado a involucrarte en una necesidad

–y quiero decir realmente involucrado, como hacer preguntas y ver a las personas donde están, como integrarse a tu unidad militar, no sólo una especie de “revisa la caja” concierto voluntario–

–cuando te involucras así, empiezas a ser absorbido. Desarrollas enemigos y aliados.. Empiezas a aprender nombres., para ver quién necesita qué, quién tiene un motivo oculto y quién es sincero, ¿Quién está peleando qué batalla?.

Eso es vecindario mierda.

Antes de que lo supieras, la gente te busca como protector cuando necesitan ayuda.

Entonces, ¿qué sucede cuando de repente el agua de la inundación llega hasta el pecho de su vecindario??

¿Qué tipo de reptiles viven debajo del lodo marrón turbio? donde estas vadeando, niño aferrado a tu espalda, agua ondulante lamiendo tus costillas, Dedos descalzos hurgando en el limo, las rocas y el lodo.?

¿Cómo se evita que los niños desaparezcan??

¿Cómo es cuando no puedes secar nada?–nada en tu casa, nada de tu ropa, nada, todo empapado?

¿Cómo luchas por tu vecindario cuando estás tan inundado como todos los demás??

Déjame presentarte a Efraín.

There’s a full transcript below, Para los que, como yo, A menudo me impaciento viendo vídeos y prefiero leer.. Una vez que hayas terminado con eso, you can help Ephraim save his neighborhood by going to nobelexpress.com, and ordering food to the address

Ephraim Gaye Shaul
Paynesville City
Barclay mission field
Phone number +231886784192

You can also email him at ephraimshaul@yahoo.com to let him know it’s on its way.

Proporciono este tipo de información porque quiero encontrar a los pocos y fieles que quieren hacer más que el bien común.–los que están lo suficientemente locos como para imaginar convertirse en superhéroes de la vida real. No guerreros del teclado. No activistas. No es una mafia de Twitter. Y no sólo gente agradable. Pero las personas que toman medidas reales, ponerse en juego, deja caer el ego, y arremangarse para salvar vidas.

Si estás listo para romper el molde – para realmente empezar a salvar a la gente – únete al entrenamiento gratuito de mentalidad de superhéroe de cinco días aquí. No creo en las coincidencias: estás aquí por una razón. Así que no dejes pasar este momento y pierdas la oportunidad de meterte en el juego.. “Y si” no es un arrepentimiento divertido.

Transcripción:

📍 Ephraim is a Liberian brother connected with my Messianic synagogue. Orphans and widows rely on him for helprecently they had an enormous flood.

I first met Ephraim because my Messianic synagogue from Tikvat Yisrael in Hawaii has connections with people all over the world: oppressed and hidden believers in Pakistan. We have connections with folks who are doing amazing homeless outreach in Hawaii. We have connections with folks who do prison care. We have connections with folks who are in Kenya, Liberia just many, muchos, many places.

Now I like to talk about becoming a real life superhero. A big part of that ethos is seeing a problem, and instead of waiting around for a corporation, gobierno, charity to fix it, you decide yourself what you’re going to do.

sí. Ver, our cooking is firewoodwood is what we can cook on here. The rice on the fire, there’s the soup: palm butter.

Ephraim doesn’t work for a government. He doesn’t work for a corporation. He doesn’t have a big charity behind him. There isn’t a big religious organization behind him either. He’s just a guy who’s looked at a scripture passage that said we’re supposed to take care of the widows and orphans, and he thought, “bien, somebody’s gotta do it, so I’m gonna be the one.

Sí. See we don’t have kitchen in the strong rain here. There is the little–nuestra, our corn farm. The garden, as you see in the video. Por lo tanto, por lo que, so some. Here it is water.

So he has been out of his limited resources working with other members of their congregation to make sure people who have even less than them can be fed.

So you can kind of understand how upsetting it would be if all of a sudden you are the person who’s responsible for helping people in your area and now not only do people not have food and water, but all of your stuff is also, Sabes, flooded.

Kids like this who are injured or ill now also have to deal with the problem ofnow nobody has anywhere to stay.

So the big thing that really differentiates a superhero from an ordinary person is instead of looking at impossible, you start asking the question of HOW. Isabelmy friend who runs the orphanage, quien 20 years ago had nothing after the Liberian Civil Warwas told, “You are poor. How are you possibly gonna take in all of these orphans that you’re finding in the refugee camps?” And she said, “Bien, God wants me to do that,” so she just decided she was gonna do that . She found a very clever way, which you can hear about in the video about her.

Ephraim is the same kind of person. Who’s gonna take care of his community, if not him? In Liberia, the situation with the economy is so bad that as the price of rice, which is the staple food, is going up, people have no jobs and those who do have jobs aren’t getting paid.

Even the government isn’t paying its workers anymore. So what do you do?

Part of that is figuring out how you can leverage tools like the internet; he doesn’t have very much internet access. He can use internet once a week, which he uses to Zoom into our Shabbat services , but you can use that to make contacts and mobilize people to help your community.

These bags of rice you can see they’re labeled Nobel Express. There is actually a way that you can send food to Liberia, and this is something that we did over the summer.

Nobel Express is not a charity, by the way. Nobel Express is literally a food mailing service for people in Liberia because some folks have family in the United States, and those family members can send them food.

This is a Ephraim’s little fellowship. Usually we don’t really associate Judaism or Messianic Judaism with people in Africa, but actually both Judaism and Christianity have been in Africa longer than they have been in Europe.

One of my goals has always been to kind of highlight people who are not the same as everybody around them. People who kind of break stereotypes. Do their own thing.

I really like Jeremy Lin for this reason because Jeremy Lin is another like very stereotype busting person. We tend to make assumptions about people and we tend to decide, Oh, this is what all of this person is like.

And we also tend to de-identify and dehumanize people. We tend to say, Oh, this person isn’t a real, lo que sea, but this person is a traitor to their race, country, lo que sea, because they are like this.

And my goal has always been to see people as whole people and say, No, this person is who they are.

Ephrem is a Liberian who believes the same thing that Messianic Jewish people believe, keeps the Torah, keeps the festivals just like an Orthodox, Reform, or Conservative Jewish person. And it’s different. He has a different way of doing things and nobody made him. He’s in charge of his own little group. This is a thing that he decided and other people in his community have come around him and I imagine that one of the reasons his congregation is the size that it is, is because I’m sure they appreciate how his faith is lived out in action. Which is another important superhero concept: that you don’t just say what you believe.

This is one of the places they were worshiping before their flood. And you can see everybody is in their really beautifulthis is kind of like the equivalent of Sunday best, but it’d be Shabbat bestclothings with the head wraps. This is a long time before the flooding.

This is another place that they have met before as well. So they kind of meet wherever they’re able. So this is them singing and dancing together. And you can see that it’s people with different economic statuses too.

I like the little kid with the carrying their mother’s black pursethe different economic statuses of the people within the community are kind of demonstrated by the different places that they’re living.

My friend Isabel has made a, this is rice, Yo creo que. sí, a rice like this for me before it was quite spicy. And you can see it’s communal sharing. It’s very common. Kind of like, same with Ethiopian food.

I think that’s rice I can’t see in the picture. Super good.

Por lo tanto, and you can see that these gentlemen also wear an equivalent of a kipa or yamaka. Just like Orthodox, Reform, Conservative, and some Messianic Jewish people wear in the United States.

So I’m pretty sure that’s sweet potato greens. That is something that is pretty commonly eaten there, at least from what I know from Isabelle and these. Are the kinds of materials that they share in their home group.

The part of the UN that is deals with food insecurity, one of the large statements that they made several years ago was that people in countries like the United States and Europe are having health crisis from too much meat, but some parts of the world, places like Liberia, children’s health would be greatly improved if they had more access to meat.

And in countries like the United States, we tend to have a lot of health crises or crises that are related to too much meat. Derecho? And you especially see that with the big changes in pollution and runoff due to the agricultural factory farm situation that we have because of our meat situation.

Obviously as a physician I know, good protein, good fats and good vegetables and co-enzymesthat’s why things like the keto diet work for a lot of people. It’s not good for everybody. Some people will get into a lot of trouble and can be really hurt on the keto diet, but generally carbs is what is bad for you.

When we’re talking about folks in Liberiajust based with my experience the last seven years with Isabellethey do have chicken when they can, but protein sources are a little bit difficult to come by, so that’s why it was kind of special that we were able to send sardines and other fishy, healthy protein basically.

So there are ways to be a hundred percent plant-based and get the proteins that you need be vegetarian or vegan. It’s gonna be even harder in a very, very low income environment like this.

They’re not, they don’t have B 12 supplements. They don’t have, Sabes, access to all of the beans and lentils and every single different kind of protein or every single kind of nut and so forth that you can put together to make a complete protein source if you are a vegetarian or a vegan. So in a lot of these places in the world, that is, that wouldn’t be a practical lifestyle.

Está bien, so let me just show you Nobel express.com.

We tend to, Yo creo que, have a very over traditional view of what a charity or what world aid should be. The reality is though there are millions and millions of dollars of aid that have been poured into certain communities and things haven’t gotten better.

De hecho, there are some communities that are now poorer than when they first started getting aid. So the traditional charity system isn’t working partly because you tend to have the tragedy of the commons. Derecho? Tragedy of the commons is, is something that you tend to experience in a lot of places where like a well has been done for a community, por ejemplo, and organizations like Water Wells for Africa that work in Malawi, por ejemplo, are trying to change that paradigm. When they build a well, they’re not just gonna leave a well, which is gonna break down within a year and be useless or be vandalized or only one person ends up getting access to it. When they build a well, they first establish a community committee that is going to manage the water. They teach repairs and they figure out how they’re gonna source materials so that this is gonna be sustainable. And there is a essentially community organization that is responsible for continuing it. Essentially what they’re doing is putting the power into the hands of the people who are receiving the help.

And similarly, Kiva, derecho? Kiva has been is a really neat twist. Instead of the traditional charity model, Kiva will loan people who are in need moneythere’s no interest or anything like thatin order that they can start their own mini business. It’s called micro financing.

So for example, a long time ago I gave to a woman in I think Vietnam who needed a wheelbarrow. She couldn’t even afford a wheelbarrowso that she could go into the trash dump and collect things that she could recycle, derecho? And the idea is once she’s sold enough to pay back the loanit ranges between like 25 to hundred dollars depending on the situation. Her situation, I think was like $25 or something like that. People end up paying back that loan to Kiva once they have the money to do so, and then that same money goes to help somebody else. So not only are you increasing the net value of your dollar, ’cause each dollar can help multiple people over and over again, but again, you are putting power in the hands of the people that you’re helping. And when you put power in the hands of the people you’re helping, you kind of get out of this paternalisticI’m the hero, I’m solving all the problemsmentality.

And you start to focus on seeing other people kind of as the hero of their own story, which is very important. And I think that’s another big like superhero ethics point when we are trying to break away from the normal, derecho? The normal charity model has failed in many places in the world.

The normal government aid model has failed in many places in the world.

The model of lifting people up and seeing the hero in somebody else: I think it’s kind of inherent to a realistic superhero model, derecho? Because a real life superhero couldn’t really be as flashy; unless you’re calling attention to a cause, en general, you don’t wanna draw attention to yourself. You wanna draw attention to the people that you’re serving, because that’s your focus. That is how you’re gonna get things done. if the attention is on other people, then it becomes contagious.

And that’s a big difference with the Kiva kind of model.

That’s not to say that traditional charity is completely all bad. There are economic institutes that talk about how in the long term, investing in, por ejemplo, African business is going to be more helpful than dumping money at well products or so forth. But in the short term, there are children who are hungry and needing now.

And so what do you do now? Por lo tanto, Sabes, so there, there needs to be a balance.

But I, I mention all of this to point out that there are ways to help that are not just charity, derecho? You don’t have to just send money a place, you can send food a place, and when you do something like Nobel Express, which is a business, they have employees in Liberia, so you’re improving the Liberian economy.

They also have employees in the United States. So you’re taking business money, essentially from the United States into Liberia in a way that’s elevating people and allowing them to make money for themselves, derecho? You’re not just helping the local economy, you’re helping individuals, and those individuals are helping other people in the meantime.

So this is a hundred pound bag of rice, I think what we sent was the fish pack. I think we sent this pack, the express premium fish pack where we sent some noodles, a hundred pound bag of rice, and a bunch of sardines and other things like that. They have since added some other really neat things to their store, like mattresses, generatorsIsabel Isabel has on multiplications brought up to meet the issue of, “bien, the electricity is out all over Liberia again.At her orphanage they have a solar panel that was built for them by US Marines many, many years ago. And we, you and I helped them to repair it ’cause it had been broken for a long time . And so that way when the electricity goes down, the children in that orphanage still have electricity. They can still study for school, everything isn’t in total darkness.

They can still communicate with the outside world, which is important in other situations where they haven’t had the benefit of some random group of Marines coming and building them a solar panel.

A generator is a huge possibility. The only issue with that is that then you have to pay for gas regularly, but it’s still better than having nothing. And you can store up the gas for a long time. So there’s a lot of cool things you can do with Nobel Express.

Ephraim’s situation, as I mentioned, is pretty different than Isabel’s situation. She has this well established orphanage. He is literally this young guy now in his thirties who goes around his area and brings food to widows and orphans in his area. If you want to send food to Ephraim through Noble Express, you can do so.

You have to put his address on there. His address is going to be Ephraim Gaye Shaul, Paynesville City, Barclay Mission Field, and phone number 231-886-7 8 4- 1 9 2. Ephraim Paynesville City Paynesville, spelled P A Y N E S I L L E, Barclay Mission Field, b a r c l a Y.

And then his phone number, 2, 3, 1, 1, 8, 8, 6, 7, 8, 4, 1, 9 2. And you can literally pick out what you wanna send. There are many packsmost of the things on there tend to be a little bit in bulk. They tend to prefer US rice, I have been told, but you can also pay for local rice. Otra vez, you end up helping in two or three ways, derecho?

Because you’re also helping the local economy, which is crap, Ahora mismo. Because it doesn’t matter if you throw money at it and the local economy is so bad’cause none of you or me can just keep giving money forever because one day we’re gonna die.

Por lo tanto, Sabes, at some point a different, more sustainable solution has to show up.

Sometimes people need food NOW. On average, the school quality tends to be poor in some of these countries: muy, very difficult for mal nutritive children to learn. If you’ve grown up mal nutritive, your brain does not have the same kind of development.

If you can do something that is going to stimulate long-term change, that’s the best way you could possibly do it. Kiva, the kiva.org that I mentioned, noble express.com is spelled n O b E L express, e x p r e 📍 📍 s ss.com.

So not noble like noble like nobility, but like Nobel, like Nobel Prize.

We’ll let Ephraim close you out.

Ephraim: ‘So very soon we pray that we get help to take all the kids and the woman from here, the widows

thank you.'


Jen Finelli es una autora de ciencia ficción que viaja por el mundo y se ha ido a nadar con tiburones., escapó de estar encerrado en un convento de monjas alemán, Descubrió murales y poesía en cuevas urbanas subterráneas., selvas exploradas y desiertos de coral, y salí con todos, desde muertos y prostitutas hasta influyentes políticos secretos y senadores. Ella está lidiando con la vida como médico contándote historias., y cuando crezca será una superheroína. Puedes ayudarla en patreon.com/becominghero, y aprende sobre el personaje del cómic que mató al autor y que empezó todo en convertirse en héroe.ninja..

***Salud mental: Si necesitas ayuda, consigue ayuda. He sufrido una enfermedad mental grave durante años y sé que apesta.. Si tiene problemas para encontrar un terapeuta, visite betterhelp.com/doctorjen para obtener una opción en línea. Me afilié a ellos para conseguirte un enlace especial para 10 porcentaje de descuento en teleterapia. SI NO PUEDE PAGAR LA TERAPIA EN LÍNEA, consulte sus opciones con su departamento de salud local o openpathcollective.org. también:

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Números de suicidios internacionales

Libro de logoterapia de Victor Frankl me ayudó a encontrarle sentido a mi depresión (Ordene desde otro lugar que no sea Amazon si puede, pero si no puedes, Utilice este enlace de afiliado para apoyar mi trabajo.)

— Esta Libro de trabajo DBT por Matthew McKay me ayudó a sobrevivir fuertes emociones suicidas

soy un verdadero medico (licencia de Virginia de búsqueda pública en 0101265916), pero desafortunadamente, No puedo darle ningún consejo médico oficial en línea ya que nunca hemos tenido un cita individualizada. En lugar, Realmente espero que estos recursos más generales ayuden.; están basados ​​en evidencia y me han ayudado. si no ayudan, ve a buscar algunos que lo hagan.

tu vida importa.